How to Recognize Scams in Online Dating
It all begins with an idea.
At Twyned, safety is our #1 priority. We implement a range of robust measures like verifying age and appearance, allowing users to designate an emergency contact, and much more to ensure the safety of our community.
Despite our around-the-clock efforts to protect our users, romantic scammers will still try to exploit others financially through the use of false romantic interest. Unlike on other dating apps, individuals on Twyned cannot message prior to the first date, which significantly lessens the likelihood of scams (since most scammers are unwilling to meet face-to-face). However, it’s important to still exercise caution when interacting with new people on Twyned.
Common Signs of Romantic Scammers
Their profile pictures are too perfect, as if from a magazine or stock photo.
They love bomb you, offering excessive praise or professing strong feelings early on to foster a false sense of intimacy and urgency.
When speaking about themselves, they are vague, inconsistent, or evasive, intentionally leaving out or frequently changing details about their lives.
They invent urgent situations like medical emergencies, family problems, or travel dilemmas to elicit sympathy and get financial support.
They exploit guilt or pity, making you feel responsible for their wellbeing.
Some romance scammers use blackmail, threatening to expose a person’s private details or photos unless they receive payment—a federal crime under U.S. law. Don’t give into their demands. Instead, gather all evidence of their blackmail attempt, cease all communication immediately, and report the incident to law enforcement. Be sure to also block and report them on Twyned to help protect our community—any scam or attempted scam will result in a lifetime ban from the app.
Protect Yourself from Scammers
Following these tips can significantly reduce your risk of falling victim to a scam:
Investigate suspicious photos: If their pictures seem suspect, perform a reverse image search to check if they’ve been used elsewhere.
Protect your personal information: Be mindful of what you share online, whether on social media, dating apps, or elsewhere. Scammers can use this information to target you more effectively.
Don’t share intimate photos: Never send intimate photos to someone you’ve just met, even if they seem trustworthy or you have instant chemistry.
Don’t send money: No matter the reason or urgency, refrain from sending money to someone you’ve only recently met.
Keep financial details private: Never share specifics about your finances, such as income, debts, assets, or bank account information.
Take your time: Go slow and ask thoughtful questions, only sharing personal details once you’ve established trust over time.
Watch for emotional manipulation: Stay alert to the signs that someone is trying to emotionally manipulate you.
Trust your instincts: If something feels off, trust your gut and stop communicating.
By recognizing the signs and following these safety tips, you can navigate dating with confidence and create
By recognizing the signs and following these safety tips, you can navigate with confidence and foster meaningful, secure connections.