Welcome to the Safety Center
The Safety Center is a comprehensive resource hub designed to help people date with confidence. Here, you will find practical tips, educational content, and more to support safe, empowering, and healthy dating.
Safety and wellbeing articles
We’re constantly adding new articles and other resources, so be sure to keep checking in!
Safety toolbox
Compatibility
Our Zero-Tolerance Abuse Policy
How Attachment Styles Show Up in Dating
How to Safely Exit A Bad Date
Staying Safe When Alcohol’s Involved
Community
What Makes Two People Truly Compatible
Communication
Our safety features
With our thoughtfully designed safety features, we empower you to take full control of your dating experience so you can build the meaningful connections you deserve.
UNMATCH
Discreetly remove the connection. Once unmatched, neither profile will be visible to the other.
BLOCK PROFILE
Prevent any profile, whether you’ve matched with them or not, from viewing yours.
BLOCK CONTACTS
Keep people you know from viewing your profile by opting in to share your contacts with us.
PHOTO VERIFICATION
We verify that individuals’ photos accurately represent who they are to ensure you're connecting with real people.
SNOOZE MODE
Temporarily hide your profile for any reason and return when, and only when, you’re ready.
EMERGENCY CONTACT
Allow trusted friends or family members to receive immediate alerts and your real-time location if you ever feel unsafe on a date.
REPORT PROFILE
If you encounter a profile that seems suspicious or violates our guidelines, you can report it anonymously, and we’ll investigate it.
NO HARASSMENT, ABUSE, VIOLENCE, OR HATE SPEECH
Any instance of harassment, abuse, violence, or hate speech will result in prompt account termination.
Support resources
If it’s an emergency, please call 911.
Otherwise, check out our comprehensive Resource List below to get the support you need.
Cyber Civil Rights Initiative
1-844-878-2274 I www.cybercivilrights.org
FBI Internet Crime Complaint Center
LGBT National Help Center
1-888-843-4564 I www.glbtnationalhelpcenter.org
National Center for Missing & Exploited Children
1-800-THE-LOST (843-5678) I www.cybertipline.com
National Domestic Violence Hotline
1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or 1-800-787-3224 I www.thehotline.org
National Human Trafficking Hotline
1-888-373-7888 or text 233733 I www.humantraffickinghotline.org
National Sexual Violence Resource Center
1-877-739-3895 I www.nsvrc.org
RAINN’s National Sexual Assault Hotline
1-800-656-HOPE (4673) I online.rainn.org I www.rainn.org
Planned Parenthood
1-800-230-7526 I www.plannedparenthood.org
Trans Lifeline
1-877-565-8860 (US) or 1-877-330-6366 (CA) I www.translifeline.org
VictimConnect - Crime Victim Resource Center
1-855-4VICTIM (855-484-2846) I www.victimconnect.org